Midlife Musings

Reflections on life from 40-something

Dear Bob

July6

This is a special post. I’m writing it for a commenter here who left his business name in lieu of his own (I fixed that for him), and then had the nerve to say, “the white shoes should be thrown. you got no use for them. but other than that looking good” on Mothering Many. Although it’s directed to him, I am actually writing it on behalf of women everywhere, as a follow up to my post about shoes last night.

Now, the shoes in question do in fact, not match the outfit for which I originally bought them. Though I refused to admit it to Bob, I did in fact have nothing to wear them with. I bought them at a thrift store quite some time ago because I saw them, and loved them, and had to have them. Well, last night I fixed that. I now have something to wear with those shoes, and wear them I shall. Just because I can.

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Bob, do not ever again underestimate the lengths to which a woman will go to wear a pair of shoes she loves.

10 Comments to

“Dear Bob”

  1. On July 6th, 2007 at 1:28 pm Carla (55 comments.) Says:

    Priceless!

  2. On July 6th, 2007 at 1:38 pm cass Says:

    Thanks. It felt good, too!

  3. On July 6th, 2007 at 1:52 pm Ang. (47 comments.) Says:

    Take that, Bob!

  4. On July 6th, 2007 at 6:15 pm Deb (11 comments.) Says:

    I love that last comment!!!!!!! So true

  5. On July 6th, 2007 at 11:29 pm Sindy (5 comments.) Says:

    LOL! You are not alone in buying an outfit to match the perfect shoes! Isn’t that the way a lot of women shop?!?

  6. On July 7th, 2007 at 11:32 pm cass Says:

    Yeah!

  7. On July 7th, 2007 at 11:36 pm cass Says:

    I’d wear the suit tomorrow, but I actually bought a couple of really hot dresses today, and I want to wear one of them.

  8. On July 7th, 2007 at 11:42 pm cass Says:

    Seems rational to me, LOL!

  9. On July 9th, 2007 at 12:10 pm Daisy (2 comments.) Says:

    Shoes are so fulfilling! I dress from the shoes up, but it’s for health reasons. I’ve had problems with my left foot, and I have to pick the shoes that will cause the least pain. Then I pick the outfit.

  10. On July 10th, 2007 at 8:58 pm cass Says:

    I oficially love shoes.

 
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I'm Cass. I am a full-time mom to eight great children, a Christian and a blogger. I'm also a knitter, a reader and a movie watcher. And a collector of eclectic oddities.

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