is do the best we can do with the information we have at the time. I’m saying this to remind myself of the truth of it.
So often in life, we find out stuff later that would have changed what we did at the time. It’s still important to keep on moving forward when that happens. We cannot change the past, period. There is not one thing we can do now make the tiniest bit of difference then. It is what it is. If we fall into the trap of second guessing ourselves, and not letting ourselves move on, then we end up missing the present as well. Then we are twice-robbed, and that doesn’t do anyone any good.
If you know you did the best you could with the knowledge you had, let it go and move on. Love now. If it matters eternally, it’s already settled.